What is the Chemistry Of Emotions ?

Another word I love is chemistry.Not in the literal sense but in the sense of relationships or in the sense of personal body chemistry related to your individual emotional state.

In relational terms we say “The two of them had good chemistry between them” meaning they understood each other well .Or “they shared a certain chemistry amongst them” meaning they bonded well emotionally….

But  the word chemistry is more important when I think  of it in terms of the human body.There are certain emotions which have a certain chemistry….and when these emotions are unleashed,they release certain toxins and change the chemistry of your body. Say for example ,anger.If you get really angry,certain toxins(chemicals) are relesed in your system which also makes your breathing go haywire.This is like poison in your blood stream,and when this blood reaches your brains,it looses the capacity to think logically because of the poisons.If the person on whom you are angry also gets angry then it gives rise to more anger and more toxins get released  in both leading to higher levels of anger.If violent acts are analysed I am sure it will be found that more than 50% of them can be traced to rage…or extreme uncontrollable anger.Anger changes the chemisty of a person dangerously by converting certain toxins into  poisonous chemicals.

Or take for example fear…when fear takes over,certain toxins are released and chemistry is altered drastically..Reflexes are  heightened and you will be able to run faster,think faster in the act of self preservation.It is most clearly seen in the jungles when animals are faced with danger from other wild animals.Chemistry gets altered with fear and this chemical could be a self preservation chemical. 

I am sure love must also be having a certain chemical(toxin) associated with it  and this must be releasing in the body when you fall in love making you feel all so emotionally messed up.

A study of  body chemistry will help in the study of controlling all negative emotions like anger,hatred,violence,jealosy,racism.

There are medicines for all diseases which work on this principle.Even mental problems like depression are dealt with by mood enhancers.

So hopefully one day,science will be able to control all other negative emotions as well .

In the Universe it may be Maths and Physics which rules.But  in the body,I am sure it is Chemistry.

Look Back On Anger

Everybody gets angry and everybody feels bad about getting angry.
What happens when you get angry?
These are the visible signs of anger I have seen in myself as well as other  people.
1.Breathing goes all haywire.
2.The mind gets clouded,so speech pattern gets affected,volume level of voice increases and this in turn gives rise to more anger.You start to sweat and sometimes to suffocate.You will also tend to snort and flare your nostrils.In short you will get ugly and emnate bad vibes.
3.If the person you are lashing your anger on gets provoked this will increase your anger level.Anger escalates very easily.
4.Anger can throw the normal mind pattern out of control.The eyes will widen and be filled with venom.
5.When anger is caused due to an ego problem,then anger is likely to remain,even in a suppressed state,for a long period of time.
6.When anger is combined with frustration then it can lead to uncontrollable  violence.
7.When anger is combined with sex/lust,it can lead to rape or even murder.
8.Anger can be reduced if you anticipate it or learn the art of seeing it coming.
9.Anger can be slowly removed from your system totally with awareness.
10.When anger is caused by the other person’s stupidity, you can minimize anger by  compassion for that person.
11.If you look at the cause of your anger and mentally say to yourself”This too shall pass” you will get less and less angry.
12.Anger can be minimized if you think of people you know whom you have never seen get angry and using them as role models.

Anger is as bad as violence…anger is nothing but violence within oneself created by yourself.No matter what the cause is,there is no need to get angry.

Just as there is non-violence,there MUST be non-anger.

Be cool is a great phrase and that is possible if you decide never to get angry no matter what happens.

Ego Pressure

If there is such a thing called blood pressure, surely there should be a thing called ego pressure that  measures  the level of your ego.

New terminology has to be brought in to seek new insights into mind control. 

A high ego pressure- A high E.P. should be the medical word used for a highly egoistical person.A person who has a large ego.

A person with high E.P. will hardly be aware of his problem,unless someone around him tells him of this.

The ego(whether large or small) is the source of so many problems.

Therfore it is neccessary to get rid of the ego ,if you can.

The first thing is to be aware of this problem.

Then,the  next thing is to  counter this problem with humility.

Developing humility is the cure for High E.P.

Once ego is in control,so much happiness is possible.

You will become more lovable and you will love others more easily.

There will be less distance between you and the rest of humanity.

If there were self development lectures in school,the first lesson would be to learn everything about the ego and then get it out of your system.

No ego no problem.

Just as anger is the worst poison, easily visible outside,ego is the worst poison deep inside us,not easily visible,even to ourselves.
Man’s ego is the foundation of his fall.
It blocks man’s vision of reality.
We are so full of ourselves that there is no place for God.
What is the foundation of our ego?
What have we achieved in our lives?
Its not putting down our achievements.
Its knowing our place in time and space.
What have we created in this vast universe?

Anger

Anger is the worst poison.
If not controlled it gives birth to many more poisons.
Like violence.Like hatred.Like unintentional murder.
It can start small and can cause a lot of damage – both to yourself and to others around you.
Anger has the power to change the energy field in the space around which it gives birth.
The antidote to this poison is awareness.
Knowing that you are getting angry,knowing that the poison has started working within you automatically reduces the anger.
It is impossible to go within with anger inside you.